Sex and foreplay in public does sound delightfully naughty but in the real world it doesn’t always work out. In fact, there are somethings we don’t take into consideration. For example, everyone has heard of “Joining the mile high club†but have you’ve been in an airplane bathroom? Not the most ideal place to get your rocks off.
Now don’t get me wrong. There is a lot of excitement to the idea of being interrupted at any moment while being entwined with your partner. I myself have gotten my kicks with public sex and you are asking me for advice on this so I’ll quit stalling… right after you all accept this word of caution before I begin.
Getting caught is one thing, but getting caught and having a public indecency charge on your record is not hot. It can be very difficult to explain on your job application why you were busted getting a quickie in a restaurant bathroom. Â So when or if you practice this, remain cautious.
You should first find out if you and your partner would even enjoy public sex. Try experimenting with simple things like making-out in a car in a crowded parking lot, push (or be pushed) into the wall of an elevator or sneak into a department store fitting room when the other rooms are empty. When I say make out I don’t mean light kissing, I mean passion. Fondle over your partner’s clothes and talk dirty. See if the prospect of getting caught turns you both on. Of course doing so with your partners consent. If both of you found this fun and titillating you’re ready to take it up a notch.Â
Now lets get down to some business!
One of the most basic but over looked things you can do to have successful public sex is to dress for the occassion. What I mean by that is that you’re both wearing outfits that can easily be removed or pushed aside. You don’t want to be caught with your pants down and unable to pull’em back up at a moments notice! So think of wearing things like short or flowy skirts, loose fit jeans, going “commando†or wearing crotch-less panties.
The higher the concentration of people the higher the risk of being discovered. This should be a given fact but there is a major difference between a rest stop in the middle of no-where and a public park. Not that you couldn’t try in a very public space but if you do be very aware of where you are and what places are the least trafficked. I’d strongly recommend instead to use places that are either somewhat vacant or where there are areas you can disappear just out of sight. For example, empty college class rooms looking up the schedule and taking opportunities when there was a hour or so between them. Same with “study halls†in the library.
The third and last tip I have to say is even if your partner isn’t into it there are still ways to explore your own exhibitionism with them. Ask if you can “perform†in front of them, masturbating while they watch. Have a mirror set up so you or your partner or heck both of you can watch yourselves having sex. Another fun idea is a game I like to play where we have our “fun†10 or 20 minutes before guests or a delivery person arrives. Typically we’d be in the living room when we do this. The idea that this person could barge in any moment was thrilling but my partner had the security knowing that the door is locked and can’t come in until we answer.
Hope you find this helpful insight and if you wish for specifics for different kinds of locations let me know! I’ll give you even more tips. Thanks for the great question!
